Building a Foundation

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Now that spring has arrived here in Michigan, many construction projects are once again underway.
Land is being cleared, holes are being dug, and foundations are being laid.
Each time I see a foundation being poured for a new home, school or business, it makes me think of the foundations we must lay in our own lives in order to be successful.
Children begin right after birth developing the foundations that they will need to be successful in life.
Babies quickly learn, "When I cry, my caregiver comes to comfort me; when I drop something, someone picks it up; and when I make noises, someone responds.
" These back and forth exchanges lay the foundation for long-lasting relationships.
Foundations continue to be laid throughout the time children are growing and developing in a variety of areas.
For some children, solid foundations are not laid in the early years.
Reasons for this may be due to internal disregulation (ex.
reflux or sensory difficulties), some type of trauma, or an environmental influence (e.
g.
living conditions).
Whatever the reason, trying to build upon a less than solid foundation is very difficult.
Children who are missing solid foundations will need a chance to go back and build those foundations.
That is where the concept of remediation is critical.
Many of the children I see in my job are missing foundational pieces needed for developing long-lasting relationships and a quality of life.
For this reason, their parents have sought out a remediation program.
What we tell parents is that building a solid foundation for their child first begins with them.
I spend a lot of time talking with parents about building the foundation that will support the rest of their remediation program.
We talk a lot about the fact that without a solid foundation, the treatment process is doomed to fail from the start.
For the consultants at Horizons, a solid foundation is built on a well established master/apprentice relationship and a commitment to experience sharing communication within the family.
Without this foundation, the house will eventually crumble.
Once parents have built their own foundations, the job of building a more solid foundation for their child doesn't seem so daunting.
The process of laying the foundation can be done one step at a time, and with each individual child in mind.
Some children might be missing the left cornerstone, while others might be missing a piece here and a piece there.
Wherever the pieces are missing, parents can be guided to support their children in shoring up the foundation that support to a stronger structure in the long run.
I found this quote, that I think speaks to the topic of foundations in relation to remediation, and what we at Horizons are striving to achieve with the parents and families with whom we work.
"The loftier the building, the deeper must the foundation be laid.
" (Thomas Kempis) To me, this quote says it all.
The greater the quality of life each parent wants for their child, the more solid the foundation will need to be.
As far as I'm concerned, the sky's the limit! Now that spring has arrived and warmer weather is upon us and many new construction projects are springing up, it might be an excellent time for you to think about the foundation you are building for your child.
Is your foundation solid enough to support your lofty building? If not, what can be done to firm up that foundation? Are there things that we at Horizons can do to help you establish a firmer foundation? Let us know how we can help!
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